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Not in the mouth!!!

Kissing your children in the mouth can be dangerous

Surely you have already seen mothers kissing their babies in the mouth. And there are very affectionate mothers who love expressing their love in this way. But whether you saw it or even did it, you may wonder if this is really healthy. Of course, there has been some debate for and against this practice. If you have any doubts about it, the best thing you can do is educate yourself. That's why we provide you with everything you need to know about kissing your baby in the mouth.

Kiss in the mouth: a way to show affection?

Motherhood can be such a rewarding experience that we usually express our affection with great enthusiasm. And often we don’t think of anything sweeter than kissing our children in the mouth.

Seeing that babies accept our kisses with joy, encourages us to continue with this practice over time, and it becomes a habit.

It is healthy?

There are many ways to let our babies know that we love them, but one of the best ways to support the health of our children is to have a NO KISS policy. This may sound extreme, and many parents may simply turn it into a no-kiss-baby-on-the-lips policy. However, it is important to establish some rules and guidelines. Although we would never intentionally hurt our children, without knowing, saliva can harm them, it means that we can harm them inadvertently. Remember that, as human beings, our health is composed of both emotional and physical health.

Physical Health

Physical contact with babies is recommended to strengthen the bond between mother and child. However, this form of contact is not advisable because through kisses, we can transmit viruses and harmful bacteria to the child. Remember that our bodies are much stronger than yours, since we have reached the level of maturity necessary to face the different environmental threats.

This is the reason why health professionals do not recommend kissing children in their mouths.

For hygiene

It is possible to transmit many infectious diseases through kisses that can range from flu to mononucleosis. It is even possible to cause medium and long term problems in the child's gums with a simple kiss.

Do not forget that we often lick our lips to moisturize and lubricate them, so this practice has the potential to transmit viruses and bacteria transmitted by adults that can become a catastrophe if transmitted to a baby.

There have also been cases of parents or guardians who have infected children with diseases such as megalovirus and other viral diseases contracted through saliva, the hand of another person or sneezing in the forearm. Of all the diseases that we can transmit through kissing, there is one in particular known as "kissing disease", which belongs to the same family as herpes.

Emotional health

For babies, the kisses are nice because it reminds them of the experience of breastfeeding. The contact with the lips is similar and produces a feeling of satisfaction for them. While this may seem positive, it really is not.

So, I can not kiss my baby?

It is not advisable. If we really want to be responsible with the health of our children, it is better to avoid kissing our children in the mouth. In fact, experts in pediatric infectious diseases have a stricter approach. They insist that this habit should be abandoned immediately to avoid illness in babies.

Why you should avoid kissing your baby in the mouth. Obviously, kissing your baby is a unique act that strengthens the mother-child bond by expressing your affection. But keep this fundamental point in mind: your health comes first. In addition, there are many alternative ways to show our love.


  • Avoid kissing your baby's mouth, wash your hands properly and do not blow baby's food or lend your toothbrush.
  • Do not chew food before giving it to your child when he starts eating his first foods. It is best to use a blender or a juicer to prevent the passage of germs and viruses to the baby.
  • Remember that you already have the antibodies necessary to fight certain diseases, but your baby does not yet have those defenses.
  • From a psycho-emotional point of view, mental health experts explain that it is not advisable to kiss children in the mouth, as it can cause confusion throughout their childhood.
  • Remember that although for us a kiss is an expression of tenderness and love, for the child it can be confusing as it grows, as you will realize that kissing is also an expression of affection between couples.
  • While in many cultures, kissing in the mouth between parents and children is normal, we must understand that while it is good to respect this tradition, ideally this habit should be abandoned gradually, so we can avoid uncomfortable situations for our children.

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